Saturday, December 27, 2014

help and memory

so, this whole transition to two kids has been tough on my memory. the first time i went out by myself, i left the keys in the ignition, got out of the car, shut the door, and got all the way around the car, while looking for my keys so that i could lock the doors. 

last week, we all got in the car and were about to pull out when moses spoke up and said, "i'm not buckled in! you were going to race off!" i forgot to buckle him in his car seat. this was only the second out of 3 times i did this. and he reminded me each time. so thankful for a conscientious child. 

we also played memory today, and moses totally smoked me our first round! i'm so glad i have the little guy around to help me. 


Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Talking about race

"Daddy is white, and mommy is Asian, and..." I started. 

Moses jumps in, "And I'm a superhero!!"

"Yes, you sure are."  :) 

Monday, December 15, 2014

Saturday, December 6, 2014

Candy radar

I ate one of Moses's Halloween candies, and it was like he sensed it. He woke up out of a sound nap and came to see me within a minute of me popping it in my mouth. He came out, hugged me, and said, "Mommy, what are you eating? My candy? Oh, that's okay... Can I have one too?" 

Of course you can, sweet buddy. :) 


Friday, December 5, 2014

Comforting

I may have said this before, but I believe that Moses was born to be a healer/comforter. He comforts me when I'm sad and now baby sister too. He's often the first to comfort Eden when she's crying. 

Yesterday, he even comforted her while he was scared himself! There was some *very* loud construction going on at our apartment, and Moses was pretty scared, but he leaned over to Eden and said, "Don't worry Baby Girl, those men are fixing our windows!" 

Her crying doesn't really fluster him, he just tries to guess what she needs and lets me know, "Mommy, she needs to snuggle you," for example. It really warms my heart. It also makes me realize he is sometimes naturally better at taking care of babies than I am. :) Eden and Moses are going to grow up to be good friends. 

Thursday, December 4, 2014

you gotta dress the part

we called E a princess the other day, and Mo interjected, "she's not a princess!!"

"oh? why isn't she a princess?"

"she's wearing pajamas! she's not wearing a princess dress!!"

he was shouting these comments, as if totally flabbergasted at the thought of someone being a princess while wearing pajamas.

Saturday, November 29, 2014

"Fish with the goggles!"

So, before Eden was born, Moses was a pretty orderly kid. After the sibling arrived, I feel like I don't even know him anymore. Maybe it's because he's not in daycare (structure and stimulation and enrichment is really good, but I'm unable to really provide that these days), but he's become really sensitive and flip floppy and dispbedient. I know it's probably just par for the course, as far as toddler adjusting to newborn stuff, but I sure do miss that precious time with my little buddy. 

Anyway, just last night, when Mo was supposed to be going to sleep, he had taken every single article of clothing out of his dresser and strewn it all over his room. Apparently, he was looking for his shirt with the fish with the goggles. It ended up being left at nana's house, so of course he couldn't find it. But he sure did try. And made a really really big mess trying. Wow. I really don't know this kid. 

I know my patience has been short and our relationship has been strained, but as all kid things go, I recognize this must be a phase too. I just hope it's not too long. *sigh*

Friday, November 28, 2014

he got me flowers!

moses stayed with nana and grandpa this week, and when he came home tonight, he brought me flowers! nana (actual purchaser of said flowers), said that when moses saw the flowers, he told her they were pretty and that he wanted to get them for me. so sweet! i love that little boy. he takes good care of me. :)

Thursday, November 27, 2014

I feel pretty

I'd been meaning to write this down for weeks! It's a real gem:

Moses and I were chilling and I said to him, "you're my buddy, moses, I love you."

He says to me, "you're my pretty girl. You're pretty, mommy."

Yes... We do have the best one. :) Love that kid. 

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

He's a really special kid

Whenever Eden cries and Moses is nearby, he tells me why he thinks she's crying. It ranges from wanting to nurse, wanting her blanket, to wanting to snuggle. I think it's really remarkable that this 3 year old has the capacity to think of another person's needs this way. These two are going to be lifelong friends. 

Also, I know he also really wants my attention and snuggles, so it really means a lot that he keeps putting aside his own desires/needs to make sure his baby sister is taken care of well. It's a step above just being a sweet big brother and good helper. I'm proud of this kid. 

I had a slightly disappointing morning today, where he watched a Mickey Mouse clubhouse DVD on repeat while little Eden ate for hours. But, he seemed to be just fine. And even with absolutely no adult supervision for the whole time (e and I were in another room) the living room wasn't even messy at the end of it. He's such a great kid. I feel so honored to get to be his mom. 

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Brought you a treat, mommy!

Handing me the chocolate pastry that Shane bought for me, he says, "Actually, we have to share it, I think."

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Home as a family

 Moses didn't go to daycare this week, and we spent the week mostly at home as a family. It started that way because we thought for sure that Eden would be born durning the week, and we thought we'd save some money and keep him home all week. It kind of backfired because I'm now 5 days past my due date. It's been nice to be a family for the first time however. We even we're all able to go to my OB appointment this week. It was nice. We gotten in some really quality time together. Shane has to start work next week (a new job!!), so hopefully, Eden will be born soon so we can be a family of 4 for just a bit too. 

Moses talks every day about how he want to pat her hair, give her a pacifier, sit next to her in the car, teach her not to chew on his toys, and cute things like that. He also says that baby Eden will pop out of mommy's belly so fast! Let's hope so, Mosey! :) 

Thursday, October 9, 2014

I like to spend time with him

I think Moses's top love languages are quality time and gifts. Quality time because he seems to always be asking to spend time with us and inviting us to play together. He even brings his toys for us. And he remembers who gave him which toys. I think it really is special to him. Low on the list is touch and words of affirmation. I think acts of service are kind of in the middle because he likes to do things for others, but I wonder if that's kind of a phase and not necessarily one of his main love languages. 

We snuggled together tonight and we had a long discussion about baby Eden. He told me about how she's "gonna pop out" and [gesturing toward my chest], he said "that's her spot," meaning, that's where she'll be. (How does he know!?) I told him about how small she's going to be and that she's going to need a lot of help. And he said milk will help her. He told me he doesn't like when babies chew on boy toys (his cars is what he was meaning, I think). I told him we can probably teach her not to do that, and that there will be so many things we can teach her. I also told him that he will always be my favorite little boy, my special Moses, even after Eden comes. He seemed to get it. 

It's past 9:30 pm now, and he just came out to snuggle with me. What is he doing up so late?? I wonder if his little brain is staying up processing out heart-to-heart. He's the sweetest kid ever. When I told hinge needed to go to bed, at first he said he didn't want to, but when I insisted it was time for bed, he told me, "it's okay, we can snuggle tomorrow."

Love that kid. 

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

my heart overflows

our son is turning into a delightful, considerate, little man, right before our eyes.

sometimes, when I struggle to get up because of my pregnant belly, he notices and tells Shane to help me by saying, "daddy, she can't get up."

the other day, he told me he was special. :) when I agreed, he turned to me and said, "mommy, you're special, too." :)

he mentions Baby Eden and his plans for her nearly once a day. last week, he told me, "when Baby Eden comes out, she's going to be my friend." he also says things about what she'll play with, where she'll sleep, what she'll wear... you get the idea. :)

we were on our way to church last week, and he suddenly says, "oh no, we forgot my backpack!" so responsible. we did indeed forget his backpack, but it just has a spare outfit in it, so we were okay.

the day before yesterday, Jude somehow got a hold of Shane's printer ink cartridge... and there was black ink all over our nice wool rug and our new office carpet. we were both shocked and horrified for a time. Shane was pretty quiet after that, and Moses went up to him and asked him, "daddy, are you sad?" it was so sweet. later on, Shane was scrubbing the carpet, and Moses went to him and said, "don't worry, daddy, it'll come out."

oh yeah, I wanted to add that he still calls the bathroom, "braff-fume," and one of his most common words is "a-later," as in, "we can have some candy a-later." delayed gratification at play~

this is the best child I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. I feel so incredibly lucky to have him in my life. :) my only slight sadness right now is that a new baby is coming, and my one-on-one mommy-son time is slowly coming to an end. I love his sweet snuggles in the quiet mornings and evenings. it's been just so lovely over the last couple of months.

I've truthfully never had any ambitions of growing old, but this child is really inspiring me. I hope I can walk by his side for a long long time so I can watch his precious life unfold.

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

car transporter

"it's a car prance-porter, mommy!" he says excitedly.

"a car prance-porter?"

"no! a car prance-PORTer, mommy!" he corrects me.

"a car prance-porter?"

"no! a car prance-PORTer, mommy!" he says as we both start laughing.

"OH! a car transporter!"

he nods with satisfaction.


Sunday, September 14, 2014

Uh oh, quiet toddler...

So, anyone who's watched young children for any length of time is probably familiar with the suspicious quiet, the one where you notice that you've been relaxing for few minutes of blissful peace and quiet. And you suddenly realize, UH OH! What kind of trouble could my active, talkative, wonderful, and typically non-quiet child be getting into?? Is he still alive?? 

Shane entered Moses's room this morning to check on him after a bit of suspicious quiet, and Moses, like a grown person, looked over his shoulder at Shane and said, "I'm reading books, daddy." And he got back to his books. 

I don't know why I ever worry. He really is such a good kid. 

Also, on the way to church, he says, "oh no, we forgot my backpack." He's so smart. 

Also this morning, I found an exploded pull up in the washer. Moses sometimes accidentally throws his pajamas and pull up in the hamper altogether when he gets changed in the morning. I usually catch it, but I didn't this time. Those dreadful, sticky gel crystals were all over the clothes and machine. I managed to scoop out a few handfuls of them out, and with an extra wash, it's all miraculously clean. But the whole point of the story is that while I was cleaning out the machine, Moses was by my side saying, "I'm sorry mommy, that was my fault."



Friday, August 29, 2014

he's prepared

i usually lay out mo's outfit for the next day on top of his dresser/changing table. a shirt, a pair of shorts, a pair of underwear, and some socks. last night, as i was leaving his room, i realized i forgot to do this (which happens occasionally). as i told him he needed to get his clothes on this morning, he told me he picked out some shorts. sure enough, he had picked and laid out his outfit for today: a shirt, a pair of shorts, a pair of underwear, and some socks! i asked him when he did that, and he said before naptime. i can only assume that after we tucked him in last night, he got back up to pick out his outfit for today. he's really so ridiculously easy to look after sometimes.

at dinner last night, we were having pizza, and after i pulled the two pizzas out of the oven, i set them on the table. moses looked at them and said, "you made pizza, mommy? it looks good!"

also, he likes to ask me to play with him, and even brings me toys. he is really thoughtful!

at least once a day, he's been telling me about "when baby Eden comes." he talks about where she'll sleep, what she'll wear, what toys she'll play with. it's really really sweet. i love that kid.

Thursday, August 21, 2014

sometimes it's confusing

we got home the other day, and we usually take our shoes off at the door. well, a lot must have been going on when we first got home, because when i asked mosey to take his shoes off, he accidentally shimmied his pants and underwear down instead. i was talking with shane, so when i looked over at mo, with his pants and underwear around his ankles, i have to say, it was one of the funniest things i'd seen in a while. i tried to hide my laughter though, because it was definitely an easy mistake to make, and i didn't want him to feel embarrassed. he was just trying to do what i asked him to do. :)

Monday, August 4, 2014

packing and sweet, warm hands

i told him yesterday morning that we were going to go to Nana and Grandpa's house. after church, he fussed for a second, and when I asked him what was wrong, he said, we're going to Nana's house later? then he asked me if we could pack his suitcase. I guess he was realizing that he had to pack his things if he wanted to go to Nana's, and wanted to get that done. :)

we also decided on Saturday that we were going to move into our new apartment on Friday/Saturday. this was a quick decision, but we were told we have to move out by the end of August, so might as well do it now, right? so, because we wanted to have Moses stay with Shane's parents, we realized that he wouldn't see the whole process of packing and might just come back to a whole new house. it seemed like a rough transition, so we took the time to sit and explain that we were moving. we explained we were going to pack all our things in boxes and move to a new house. we let him pack a box of books on Saturday night and then a box of cars on Sunday morning. Shane helped him decorate and label the boxes. and we kept explaining that we're moving to a new place. we think he gets it. the first thing we can do when he gets there is to unpack his boxes with him. and then maybe go back to our old place together to say bye.

it's so sad. we loved that little place. it's been home for 2 years. moses basically grew up there. *sigh*

in other news, yesterday, i was putting some hydrocortizone on one of mo's many bug bites, and he said, "mommy, you're hands are cold." I said, "yeah, buddy, i'm sorry. i'm almost done." and then he told me he wanted to warm my hands for me, and started rubbing them with his two hands. and they got warmer! it was so sweet; i'm still smiling about it.

also, I don't remember exactly what day it was, but one day last week, he woke up with dry pull-ups in the morning. he got up to pee twice that night, which wasn't exactly fun (because guess who stays awake for no reason for like an hour after each of those times? me.), but maybe he's on his way to pull-up freedom! :)

Monday, July 28, 2014

batteries and memories

he heard a bird call yesterday, but he didn't hear it today, and he told me, "that bird needs new batteries."

the other day, he told me he threw up today. i asked him more about it because he really hadn't thrown up for a long time. he pointed to a particular orange mixing bowl that was drying in the drying rack. i realized he was remembering when he got sick back in January. i had him throw up in the orange mixing bowl back then because we couldn't get to the bathroom quick enough, and a plastic bag or trashcan just wasn't working for me (the throw up was very forceful and sudden). anyway, he didn't even know how to say "throw up" back then, and he certainly wasn't speaking sentences, but he still had a memory of it. amazing. he also told me about how he slept on the floor. he remembers! not a good memory exactly, but still. :)


Friday, July 25, 2014

as an addendum to the advice from toddler son to brush my teeth. yesterday, we were reading a story, and he said he smelled shampoo (his hair was still wet and fresh from his bath), and that it smelled good. after a quick pause, he recommended that i use some shampoo in my mouth to brush my teeth. a problem solver, for sure.

last week, he was waiting by the sidelines during the 3's class water day because i didn't know he would be in the 3's and so he wasn't dressed in swim trunks. when the teacher turned her head, he made a run for it, and went into the sprinklers with all his clothes on, getting soaking wet. i was proud. :)

on a similar note, he had a potty accident today. random. also, i've started to wonder if we should start try night-time potty train. i don't even know how we would do it, or if i'm willing to do it. not sure yet. but it would be nice to save money on those pull ups. it's like they're made of gold and diamonds, they're so expensive. ridiculous.

he wanted a sticker this morning, and picked the one with the cement mixer on it. when we got to daycare, he immediately took his cubby down so that he could put his sticker safely in. at the end of the day, he found it and put it back on. when he was getting undressed for the bath this evening, he put his sticker on his bed. when he got in bed, he looked for his sticker and couldn't find it in the dark. he cried a lot over that cement mixer. i think he may be the most responsible 2-year old that i've ever met.

love that kid.

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

kids say the darndest things

this morning, I kissed Mo good morning, and he told me, "mommy, you smell like poop. you need to brush your teeth."

indeed, son, I do have to brush my teeth. :0]

Monday, July 21, 2014

I try not to underestimate him

I try not to underestimate mosey, but he learns new things so regularly that I really can't keep up. Yesterday, we were dropping him off at the church Sunday school, and I was about to tell him to take his backpack off and hand it to the teacher. I barely started directing when he took his backpack off himself, went straight to the cubbies, put his bag away, and ran off to start playing! What? This child knows what to do and he's so responsible. Wow. :) 

Thursday, July 17, 2014

quick notes

mosey and i were walking past some bushes that are on the side of our building today and he said, "mommy, someone cut the leaves!" indeed! the landscaping guys came and fixed up our apartment complex. i didn't notice the bushes at all, but mosey sure did. :)

shane was giving me a hug tonight, and mosey shouted, "give her a kiss!" we kissed, and all had a good laugh, and then he did it about a dozen more times, and it was funny every time. it was sweet! i love our little family. :)

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

i took a shower while mo got ready

so today, for the first time ever, I hopped in the shower and put moses's outfit for the day out in his room. moses managed to take his pajamas off and put them in the hamper, take off his pull-up and put it in the trash, go to the potty, and put on his outfit correctly, all without much prompting from me at all, and certainly no hands-on help. he was done before I was dressed! all I had to do with brush his teeth. he even put his shoes on the right feet. oh my.

he's only two. this is advanced, isn't it?

also, as we were walking out, we passed by some dry oatmeal that had spilled on the ground outside our door, and moses said, "that's for birds to eat." I said, "oh, that looks like bird food?" and he said, "no, it IS food for birds!"

I just realized this morning that he knows that "looks like" means "it isn't actually."

also, he seriously knows everyone's name at daycare. like everyone. there has got to be like 75+ people there. he impresses me everyday.

Monday, July 7, 2014

He understands what I'm saying

I know I shouldn't probably be surprised, because our little boy does understand a lot, but I am still surprised.

The other day, I was trying to gather up some of Mo's little matchbox cars/trucks on a windowsill by the door so that I could carry them back to his car seat in the van (it gives him something to do during our commute). We had kept these cars/trucks from Donna there since Easter, but somehow they had all found their way into the house.

As I put them up there, Mosey quietly followed my lead, and put a fleet of matchbox cars/trucks up on that windowsill. So, eventually, I told him, "Hey buddy, you know, I'm just putting the ones that Donna gave you up there, so that we can remember to put them back in your car seat when we go out to the van. The rest of them, you can put back in your toy box, they don't have to be up here."

Over the next few minutes, he carefully and dutifully proceeded to transport all the non-Donna vehicles back into his room, in his car box. Then he put all the Donna cars/trucks together, and told me, "Mommy, I'm putting Donna cars together."

The next time we were getting ready to leave (the next day!), he put on his own shoes, climbed up to the windowsill, grabbed two vehicles in each hand, and told me, "Mommy, I got my cars and trucks. I'm ready!"

I was/am so proud, I could cry! This kid.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

He's suddenly a boy, no longer a baby/toddler

So, Moses started saying the phrase that only boys say, always with a smile: "watch this!"

I don't know where he picked it up, but yes. Babyhood seems officially over with that phrase. He'll always be my sweet baby, though. ;)

I can't remember if I told you about transitioning to the big boy bed, but the last week or two have brought about very  late bedtimes because of many potty trips. I'm never really sure if the potty breaks are bogus, but he pees every time, so I'm inclined to just believe him, especially if we ever want him to be truly out of those expensive pull-ups someday. Today, he went to bed at 7:30, but fell asleep around 8:45. :/ always surprising, though, because he is the one that tells us he's tired. Oh well. I'm sure it'll all work out soon. We just need to means those little visits from Moses as minimally entertaining/rewarding as possible. 

We went to church today, and mo's teacher told us that he's getting quite a reputation. Apparently, the worship band leaders told a newer band member that Moses was the one to watch. I guess he's quite the singer/dancer! I'm just so proud of that little guy. 


Saturday, June 7, 2014

our son is awesome sauce

i'm so proud of our little buddy. i know all parents think their kids are advanced, but seriously, he's the only one in his class that really understood Ms. Hafizah's lesson on wild animals versus pets. she told me about the next day because it really was so exciting! all the other kids in the class couldn't stop saying what the animals on each card was, while moses was the only one saying what category they each were in. what!? he's so smart. also, she mentioned that pets are animals that we have to take care of, feed, and bathe. so when he got to the picture of a goldfish, he said, "pet!" and then he said, "no, this is not a pet!" and when she asked him about his answer, he said, "fish is in the water, so they don't need a bath." what?? he's so right!! oh, i love the way his bright little mind works. it makes my heart so full.

i've also been meaning to tell you that we finally moved mo to a big boy bed (at 2 years and 9 months!). it was way past due, since really, moses has been sleeping on a cot at daycare since he was 15 months old. ha. but you know, we had no troubles with him in his crib this whole time. i was just getting tired of lifting him up over the crib rail with my belly getting bigger, honestly. we bought a toddler bed at ikea, and he's adjusted alright. i think he really likes it, but he does kind of talk to himself and play around in the bed a little more before he falls asleep. he hasn't gotten out of bed to play with his toys, but he has come out a few times to tell me, "mommy, i pee pee'ed in my bed. i'm wearing a diaper, it's okay." which is why i went and bought some overnight pull-ups, which i'm hoping will help him go potty while he's still awake. *shrug*

the other day, on one of mo's late nights, we heard him playing with the door stop in his room. this was a first, and so shane went right in there, and asked moses what he was doing. and moses answered honestly. shane asked him what he was supposed to be doing, and mo answered, "i'm 'posed to be sleeping in my bed." after a few back-and-forth questions and responses, moses came to the conclusion himself that he was going to do the right thing and go to bed. it was really sweet! he really is such a delightful kid to be around.

shane told me a funny story that happened today about going potty. when we go out in public, we lift up and hold little mosey over the toilet, and he pees in the toilet, sort of hovering. well, after shane helped mo pee, shane started to go himself, and mo said to him, "i don't have to lift you up, daddy?" haha... the image of our child trying to lift up daddy to help him pee is so precious.

one of my grandmother's stories about me when i was really young was that i would beg to wash dishes, but of course, she wouldn't let me because i was too little. when she was doing something else, i would push a chair over to the sink and re-wash clean dishes because i wanted to do it so badly. well, moses is following in my footsteps, for sure. when he finished his cup of water after snack, he climbed up to the kitchen sink, washed his little cup, and put it in the drying rack, all by himself with no instruction, motivation, or supervision from me! cutie!

we went out for donuts as a family, and moses ate all the fresh fruit in the middle of his and left most of the donut. a couple of days later, i made smoothies for all of us, and he drank only half of his. then he finished his carrots and told me he was done. :) love that little man.

he knows what songs are on the passion (take it all) CD that we listen to on repeat in the car. he has his favorites, and when they come on, he consistently says, "mommy, i need that loud." yesterday, he even had me scan through the songs to find the one he wanted to hear. i think it was track 14.

how'd we get so lucky.

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Go big or go home

Mo has had, oh... I think two pee pee accidents in the past however long he's been potty trained. Well, last night, he had the accident that made up for lost time! We were outside of a restaurant after dinner and our little family was with nana, aunt Erin, uncle Matt, and six cousins. Mosey had climbed on a rock. I was the first to see the trickle. Soon enough, everyone had noticed and there was definitely an amused audience. Mosey peed until he was all done, and as we got him off the rock, he said, "I pee pee'ed on the rock."

Yes, sweet boy, you sure did. His little shoes were filled with urine. :0/

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

ow.

i sliced an onion and a tomato for our burgers and left them on the table while i turned my attention to doing a few other things. mosey had already climbed up to the table to sit in his high chair, and was waiting with his arms folded neatly in front of him.

then i heard his little voice say, quite undramatically, "ow."

i turned to see what happened, and he gestured toward the cutting board. one slice of onion had a large, neat, moses-mouth-sized bite out of it!

he sipped some milk, and recovered quickly. :)

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

sweet and sour

our son is sweet and sour these days. most of the time he is incredibly sweet, which is really fortunate. here are some examples:

  • we were all sitting on the recliner together, and i mentioned to mo that he needed to get up and put something away. and he told me we all had to get up. and as he got off the couch, he turned around and told us, "look, i'm getting up," implying that he was setting an example for us! what? he's setting a good example for his parents!!
  • the other day, mosey told me several times in the evening, "i miss my daddy." shane was at school, and wasn't going to be able to be home before moses had to go to bed, so we tried to facetime and look at pictures and everything. mo seemed satisfied. about an hour after he went to bed, shane came home and soon after he started talking to me, moses started crying. shane peeked into mo's room, and moses told him through many sad tears, "i need to say hi to daddy!" he missed his daddy so much!
  • during dinner this week a couple of times, moses looked at me wilting, and he said, "you tired, mommy? go lay down on the sofa, mommy." :)
  • he tells me he needs to snuggle with me these days. and i love it. 
  • he tells me, "i love your hair, mommy," as he puts his fingers through it. these are the times we can really understand why parents don't want their kids to ever grow up. he's so sweet. 
on the sour side of things, moses had been having the worst tantrums. i mean, high-octane screaming and thrashing for 10-15 minutes for no reason at all (that we can decipher). we tried to care adequately for him, while pretty much ignoring the theatrics (banking on the theory that we don't want to encourage the behavior through attention because negative attention is still attention), and PTL, the worst of it seems to have passed within about half a week. tantrums still come, but more briefly and not daily. parenting by trial and error, guys. 

currently cute mo pronunciations:

  • funder = thunder
  • emineminem = M&Ms
  • knock-ah-lers = binoculars
  • braffroom = bathroom

love that kid.

Monday, April 28, 2014

potty trained

well, i think it's pretty official. i think mosey is potty trained. at age 2 years and 8 months. i'm so proud.

today is his seventh day in underwear, and he's had just one accident, and i think it was miscommunication on my part. he did say he had to go potty, but we got caught up in playing and getting ready for the day, and all, and then he hit his foot on a box, and there you had it. the first thing he said when he realized what had happened was, "mommy, i peed on myself. i have to get new underwear."

he also cried during naptime yesterday because he had to go pee on the potty, even though he had a pull-up on, he really insisted he had to go potty. so, after a nap, his pull-up was will dry, and he was pretty happy about that.

i still can't believe it happened. he looks like such a big boy now. love that kid.

Thursday, April 24, 2014

potty training, verbal skills, and feelings!

moses has had some big things happen over the last couple of weeks.
  • he's worn underwear the past two days and has had zero accidents!!!
  • he's been speaking in clear, complex sentences, like, "look, that police car has blue, flashing lights!"
    • along the verbal skills, he's been using words like: actually, probably, sometimes, later, and too many. and he uses them properly most of the time! :) 
  • he's been super aware of where we're going. the other day, he knew we were going to daycare, and when i missed the turn, he let out a whoop, because he knew we missed it!!
  • he's been super aware of feelings: he told his daycare teacher the other day that his friend hurt his feelings, that he didn't like it, and he wanted her to go talk to him. 
  • he asks me to interact with him, saying things like, "mommy, talk me, please."
  • yesterday, he ate a whole peanut butter and jelly sandwich without having me cut it or opening it and making a mess. he still calls it a "swamich," but he ate it like a big boy for the first time!
in not so great news, these past couple of days, he's also had mega-sized meltdowns, complete with screaming and hitting and bouncing off of furniture. wow.

lovelove,
me

Sunday, April 13, 2014

"need to go potty, mommy!"

this past week, mosey has been periodically saying "need to go potty, mommy." and sure enough, he runs to the bathroom, pulls his pants/pull-ups off, scoots the stool up, lifts up the toilet seat, pees, and flushes. all by himself! actually, really by himself, because right after he says, "need to go potty, mommy," he also says, "no, don't follow me, mommy... you sit on the blue sofa." how specific.

anyway, i'm baffled. is he suddenly potty trained? i mean, i'm happy about it, but what? could it really be this easy? i haven't done anything to encourage this. i'm trying not to make any sudden movements to make sure that i don't spoil this good thing.

oh, also, he cried when he woke up from his nap (not super unusual), but when i went in to get him, he told me he was crying because he needed to go potty. maybe it's time to switch to a bed? yes, he's still in a crib, because why change a good thing? maybe because of the need to go pee pee in the potty.

in other news, our child is super compassionate these days. if he hits me mistakenly he'll tell me he hurt me and that he's sorry, and then he'll give me kisses. so sweet. this morning, it kind of went awry because he dropped a toy on the bathroom floor, and he said he hurt the floor. then he said, sorry floor, and started to kneel down to kiss it--bleck!!! i told him the floor was okay, and we shouldn't be kissing it. :)

also, in other news, i just noticed that mo has a new molar. maybe that's been one of the causes of so many meltdowns over the last couple of months. maybe.

lovelove,
me

Monday, April 7, 2014

turn the seat around...

can you hear percussion?

we turned mosey's car seat around this weekend. we thought we'd leave him rear facing for a lot longer (because they do up to 3-4 years old in Europe), but he was getting to the height limit, which was one inch below the shell of the seat. who knew.

pros:
* when i turn around to check on him, i see his cute smiling face.
* i can point at things (like police cars and trucks), and he can see them right away.
* i can hear his sweet ramblings more clearly.

cons:
* i can't sneak snacks without his knowledge. i can already feel the toddler drama.
* i feel like i'm not very good at buckling him in anymore, since everything is backwards and my hands don't know what to do.

i'm sure there are more, but this is what i've gathered from the past 1.5 days.

Friday, March 28, 2014

fell down stairs, mommy

we were at a friend's house about a week ago, and on our way out, mosey fell down the front porch steps. the steps were wooden and quite big, so he took a pretty big spill, complete with a big old goose-egg on the forehead.

daddy scooped him up and held him for a little bit while he made sure to check all his vitals and regular details, as any good emergency room nurse does. mosey stopped crying pretty quickly.

later that night, moses told me, "daddy hold me... fall down stairs... be careful, mommy."

a couple of days later, he told me the same thing again. i was so comforted by this because i think it shows a little bit of what kind of person he is becoming. he's not stuck in the mistake or injury, he is telling me about what happened next--that he was okay and that he received his father's love, and even further, that he learned a lesson from his tumble. this is the sort of response that i hope he'll be able to have to any mistakes that he makes, even into his adulthood. i'm proud of him.

lovelove,
mommy

Saturday, March 15, 2014

blaaaaaack shoooooooesssss

it was a very normal morning, and i got mosey ready and in the car. about a minute into the commute, mosey started wailing. i asked him why he was crying, and he just wailed and wailed. and finally he was able to choke out, "black shoes." i knew he was wearing his black shoes, so i figured he had taken one off and dropped it or something. i also knew he was buckled in properly, was safe and nothing could be actually hurting him, so i kept going. he cried for about 10-15 minutes. when i finally got to daycare, i opened the door, and you know what it was? 

the velcro on his shoe had come undone.

Thursday, March 6, 2014

grandpa

i am so thankful that nana and grandpa live close enough to see them at least a couple times a month. i think grandparents do something really good in kids--i think you can tell that something is special about kids who have spent significant time with their grandparents.

the daycare teachers spend all day with about a dozen toddlers, so they try all kinds of things to keep them in line. well, after a particularly difficult day, one teacher, miss hafizah, told mosey quietly that she was going to call up Grandpa and tell him that Moses wasn't listening.

well, she said moses's eyes got real big, and he said, "Ed?"

and she said, "yes, i'm going to have to call up Ed and tell him that you're not listening, Moses."

and moses's big eyes started to fill with tears, and crying, he told her, "no, don't call Ed."

he started listening right then, and he behaved the whole rest of the afternoon! she realized she had found the big guns. not to be wasted.

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

currently cute mispronunciations


  • vulture = walter
  • DVD = dividividee
  • polar bear = polo bear
  • mirror = mirrah
  • vaseline = vlasaline
  • lunch = runch 
  • cap'n crunch = special (mommy, can i have some more special?)


Tuesday, March 4, 2014

sure do!

things he's recently started saying:

  • "sure do!" like when i ask him if he wants more milk, he responds, "sure do!"
  • "didn't i?" like sometime he tells me something like, "i played with trucks, didn't i?"
his fuse has been short off and on these days, and honestly, it's getting on my nerves. but then he makes it up with his sweetness and mosey-ness, and then i forget all about it. he's a great great kid. 

Sunday, February 23, 2014

he's korean!

we visited a friends' house after church today. it wasn't really necessary to take off our shoes (no one had done so), but after playing a little while, i guess it occurred to mosey that he needed to take his off. without my guidance or permission or anything, mo sat down, took his shoes off, and put them neatly by the door. he didn't even tell me to brag about it, he just did it and went on playing.

i'm so proud of our korean son. :)

Friday, February 21, 2014

smarty pants

when i went to go pick up mosey, our daycare teacher, miss shanna, told us that they heard a fire truck earlier that day. moses ran to miss shanna to tell her excitedly, "fire truck!!!" then he paused, and said, "where fire truck going?" miss shanna answered, "it's going to help people." you know what smarty pants says in return?

"no, fire truck going to the fire, shanna!"

miss fizah also had a story for me. she had asked mo who dropped him off in the morning, and he responded, "helen." she was confused (the teachers don't normally know the parents by their names). she asked, "is helen your mom?" he answered her simply and kind of also confused at her question, "yes."

do other toddlers also refer to folks by their names? he almost never calls me helen to my face, but apparently he refers to me as helen to other adults. he also calls shane by his name only when he's referring to him, and not talking to him. he does this with grandpa too, refers to him by ed, but calls him grandpa. this has got to be some kind of advanced social intelligence, yes?

lovelove,
moses mom

bedtime stories

this child has a pretty good idea of what clothes he has. he usually asks for certain pj's by name, and tonight was no different. he wanted lightening mcqueens. when i put him down and gave him his shirt, he danced around his room swinging his shirt around saying, "it's nice to see you, mcqueen!"

also, he usually has an endless desire to read his bedtime stories over and over, but this time, we read his bedtime story twice, and he told me, "me go bed." i didn't think i heard him right, so i asked him what he said, and he repeated, "me go bed, mommy. night night."

i sang a few rounds of God is so Good, tucked him in, and he was off to sleep. so easy! 

love that kid. 

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

fortune cookie

on saturday, mo's fortune cookie said, "you have a strong instinct to take care of people you love."

it immediately made me think of the time that shane and i were having a disagreement, and i was crying. moses pulled up a chair next to me, climbed up on it, and holding my hand, told me, "sit next to you, mommy." and then, pointing at shane, he said firmly, "no talk mommy!!"

also, the other day, i lied down on the couch, and i told moses, "mommy's tired." he wanted to play with me pretty bad, but after just momentary disappointment, he said, "you tired, mommy? you want blanket, mommy?" and i said yes, so he dragged a big old comforter and tucked me in as best as he could.

love that kid.

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

color, mommy!

sometimes i wonder if i'm a helicopter mom. there's so much research that's saying that that style of parenting produces children who lack independence, confidence, problem-solving skills, understanding of consequences or natural relationship to their parents. so... not what i want for mosey.

cut to tonight: our son asked if he could color after dinner, which was nice. a low key activity. he pulled out all his crayons, opened up the coloring book, and asked me to sit down with him. every time i stopped coloring for a while, he would hand me a new crayon and tell me, "color, mommy!" this went on for about half an hour. the entire page was filled with beautiful scribbles of color! i was quite proud, honestly. i'm hoping this doesn't count as helicopter mom'ing, because it was so enjoyable to just sit and color with him.

also, i think he's officially left-handed. i could just die of pride.

on a more disturbing note, i broke a crayon tonight and considered hiding it from mosey so that the next time he used it, he would think he broke it instead of me. what?? this kind of thought doesn't even cross my mind usually. where has my integrity gone? i'm a terrible person.

lovelove,
helly

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

he's got a great memory

he asked me the other day about the elmo balloon that aiden gave him. that was nearly 6 months ago for his birthday--what a memory! he's also started talking about the zoo again. i can't remember exactly when we went, but it was definitely several months ago. one specific memory of the zoo involved seeing the snakes--when we went, he hardly said a word about it while we were there (he wasn't talking much yet back then). now he's got the words to talk about them, how they were behind the glass, and he even told me about their colors and everything! wow. it makes me kind of scared about how much he understands even now, before he acts like he understands. yikes. #betterwatchwhatwesay

wife

mo recently learned the concept of "wife," i.e. he can call me "my mommy" and shane can call me "my wife"

he was reading a mickey book and told me, "minnie's mickey's wife!"

Monday, February 10, 2014

hablas espanol??

in the car today, i was chatting it up with moses about his day. he was telling me all about who had cried that day and why, and of course, cars and trucks. i was thinking about how ximena's mom was speaking to her in spanish, and i also remembered that they have a visiting spanish teacher once in a while. i decided to brush up my spanish-speaking skills with mo.

"moses, hablas español?" (moses, do you speak spanish?)
"yeah."
"sí? sabes todos los númberos?" (yes? do you know all the numbers?)
"yeah."
"sí? uno, dos, tres, quatro, cinco, seis, siete, ocho, nueve, diez!" (yes? 1-10)
"yeah."
"sí? sabes todos los colores?" (yes? do you know all the colors?)
"yeah."
"sí? diga rojo y azul..." (yes? say red and blue...)
"yeah."
"moses, diga sí!" (moses, say yes!)
"sí!"

what?? continued conversation proved that he did not understand what i was saying, but it was fun for that moment where i thought he was a linguistic genius. :)

lovelove,
proud mamá

Sunday, February 9, 2014

"moses not stanky"

the other morning, as i changed mosey out of his wet diaper, he said to me, "moses not stanky."
"oh... is mommy stinky?" i asked.
"no, mommy's not stanky."
"how about daddy?"
he pauses a long while, hears that daddy is actually going poopoo on the potty, and he replies, "daddy's stanky!"

haha...

Saturday, February 8, 2014

mosey was upset about something

one other time that he was upset, i told him he needed to go to sit in his chair in the living room until he could stop crying. well, this time he was upset, he took the initiative and told me, "i go sit in chair and cry." he followed through with it, and when he was through, he told me, "all done crying, mommy." and the storm was over.

teaching our kids about the world

i have this really deep conviction that we, as parents, are responsible for teaching our kids about the world. i'm not sure i know exactly where it's come from, but i do know that my parents did their best to teach me. they taught me how to behave in public, how to speak to adults, how to eat a variety of foods, that racism exists and that it's not fair. they taught me how they believed the world worked, and how we could live within those constraints. it wasn't always accurate, but it was guidance and i feel like i have some kind of secure foundation to stand on as an adult. a frame of reference, if you will. one from which i know i can decide right from wrong and what my own opinion is and how i can understand where others stand.

so, when i read stories about how:
California has become the first state in the nation to allow transgendered students to choose which school bathrooms and locker rooms to use and which sport teams to join based on their gender identity.
i feel both anger (towards parents and adults that fight for that kind of thing) and a sense of dread (about the future for these kids). i mean, there is some degree to which i understand that we live in a really cruel world, and that a transgenered child may actually be in danger (of physical and emotional bullying) if they go into the wrong bathroom... i still think those kinds of decisions need to be on a case by case basis. i feel we are doing a dis-service to kids, allowing them to think the world will accommodate and change norms for their differences. we (as human beings) need to know how to work within boundaries, and i believe this ruling is ruining that essential lesson. i also wonder if mixing bathrooms and sports teams will result in young people getting physically and sexually harassed more. i mean, think about a transgender girl trying to change in the boy's locker room after a game. do you really think that all the boys will always behave? i am actually afraid for general safety. lastly, the transgendered kids, though in a tough situation, are the minority, and the majority is paying the price. even as an adult, i would feel uncomfortable using a bathroom stall next to a person with male genitalia. this is, and always will be, true. it's not because i hate men or transgendered folks.

oh, and also, the story makes it seem like this ruling will help ease discrimination and prejudice against transgendered folks. can you tell me how this would happen? 

the world is so broken.

lovelove,
me

Friday, February 7, 2014

proud and joyful moments

the other day, we were eating some brown rice as part of our dinner, and mosey, in between fistfuls of rice, asks me, "this quinoa, mommy?" my heart was so proud at his advanced knowledge and love of foods.

yesterday, as we were playing "lie down together" (yes, we have the BEST toddler in the entire universe), mo started sucking his thumb. i asked him if i should suck my thumb too, and he replied, "yeah, mommy, suck thumb too." i laughed and told him that i don't suck my thumb, and he proceeded to teach me, saying, "look... moses" gesturing to himself and demonstrating how he puts his thumb in his mouth. when he saw it wasn't working, he pulled my thumb up and guided it gently into my mouth! this child. i love him.

also yesterday, i called little mo "booboo" and he told me, "i'm not booboo, i'm moses kringry!"

tonight, we ate tortilla chips as an appetizer at a local mexican restaurant. when the food arrived, we had him put his chip down on the table and hold our hands to pray. as we were praying, i sneaked a peek at our son. you know what he was doing? he was putting his mouth down to the table to pickup and eat the tortilla chip while still holding onto our hands as daddy prayed. puahahaha!!!

lovelove,
mamma bear

Thursday, February 6, 2014

TP time

i found out today that mo and his chum at daycare threw a whole roll of toilet paper in the john and jumped around the bowl while flushing and laughing and having a grand old time.

#whendidhebecomealittleboy

quick turnaround

so, this morning, we were getting ready to get out the door, and mosey started to take out some cars and trucks to play with. i told him that it wasn't time for that, and that he needed to put his toys away. he, of course, in classic two-year old fashion, started having a meltdown. i proceeded to ask him calmly to put his toys away. and you know what happened? he turned his attitude right around and started putting his cars and trucks back in the box. and he said, "mommy, i'm not fussing."

i couldn't have been more proud. who is this awesome toddler? i can't handle it.

lovelove,
me

Friday, January 31, 2014

snow jam 2014

so, it snowed this week in hotlanta. it was historic because it actually shut down the entire city, and the governor declared a state of emergency for the state. we were advised to stay at home for a couple of days, and i was glad for it, since work has been quite slow, and i'd been wanting to do some things around the house.

anyway, all i wanted to say about all this is that he was interested in looking at the snow, but once he had a chance to hold it, he wasn't that interested. i think his exact words were, "hand is cold, wipe it, mommy!"

we've had a great time indoors. we watched monsters inc, played with cars and trucks (a daily joy of his), tried potty training a bit more, and just generally enjoyed each other's company. it's been fun. :)

lovelove,
me

Monday, January 27, 2014

he knows his full name

first and last! it was cute to hear him say it for the first time last night. that is all. :)

addendum: i found out the very next day that, not only does he know his full name, he knows the full name of all the other kids in his daycare class (that's like 20 kids at max). they sometimes call one another by their full name. and they, of course, answer by their first and last name too. i didn't know! i'm so impressed.

Sunday, January 26, 2014

byebye sippy cup

i can't remember the last time we've used a sippy cup during a mealtime. i guess it happened fairly gradually, but if i were to guess, i think it's been months since we've fully transitioned to regular plastic cups. i just noticed recently, and it feels weird.

also, on a similar note, i wanted to tell you about our best recent water bottle purchase:




i've been on a... two-year long search for a sippy cup that doesn't leak in my purse. this is where it's at, guys. it's quick and simple to disassemble and wash and assemble, it's easy and fun for Mo to operate (just push that button and the spout pops open), and it never spills! thank you contigo!! also, just in case you wanted to know, they also make my favorite ever coffee travel mug:












lovelove,
me

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

speech errors

speech errors tend to fix themselves in little tots over time, so i know that i need to document some of my current favies before they disappear and are forgotten (forgive me if i've mentioned any of these before):
  • strawbabies = strawberries
  • campooter = computer
  • roundy-roundy = round and round
  • oh-meh-no-no, oh-bah-no-no = Old McDonald
  • panty-tae-yal = ponytail
lovelove,
mummy

Monday, January 20, 2014

"this for you, mommy"

mosey found a piece of paper in the living room and decided it belonged to me. he brought it to me and said "here, mommy." i thanked him (even though it was actually daddy's). then he went over to our "junk drawer" in the kitchen/dining area, pulled it open, fished out a pen, closed the drawer, came over to me, and said, "this for you, mommy," handing me the pen. i said, "thanks, buddy, but i don't need this right now, could you put it back for me?" he went back, opened the drawer, put the pen back, and closed the drawer. this exchange made me beam with pride. let me splain:

  • he knows that i like to write on paper, so he got me a pen to write with (so thoughtful!!)
  • he knows where we keep pens--i have never shown him, he's just observed it (so observant!!)
  • he got out the pen by touch, not by sight--he's too short to look in the drawer (he can identify how a pen feels apart from all the other junk in the drawer!!)
  • he closed the drawer each time he opened it (so tidy!!)
  • he put the pen back right away (so obedient!!) 


i didn't want him to think he could open drawers and get out a pen anytime he wants to, so i tried to hide my beams of pride, but it was hard.

love that kid. :)

Saturday, January 11, 2014

sophistocated speech, sally, and greed

sure, complete sentences kind of popped up these past few weeks to be commonplace. however, today i was particularly impressed by his verbal skills. a few first time phrases:

  • "can you wake up, mommy?" 
  • "i'll be right back, mommy." (he made eye contact with me and said this as he turned from me in the living room to go get something from his room)
  • "i see the neighbor in the car." (as he looked out the window--this is a really complex thought/sentence, isn't it?)

we've been reading the cat in the hat at night and after the third night or so, he pointed at the little girl and said, "that's sally." i was super surprised by his auditory comprehension because even i had to read the words to figure out what her name was. i think she's his favorite character--he can point her out on each page if he's in the mood.

mo's daycare teacher told me the other day that mosey gets this one particular truck every time. she said that other kids fight him for it, but that he always comes out as the winner at the end. i was simultaneously proud (way to know what you want and keep your eyes on the goal!) and disappointed (does he not know how to share?).

mo's daycare teacher also mentioned that he had to have a time out this week because he wasn't being nice to someone who took a toy from him. it was really unusual because he's previously been a really resilient kid and easy to get along with (despite the paragraph above). shane and i talked about it and we could kind of see that it happened too, and we think it can be traced back to Christmas and all the hundreds of cars, trucks, and trains he got. i think maybe... just maybe... the more you have, the more you are anxious about losing your stuff.

just a thought.

lovelove,
me

Sunday, January 5, 2014

i'm surprised everyday

i have read somewhere that that 2-year olds don't know how to share yet and they often don't play with others, but that they play alongside them. i have to say that mosey must not have gotten the memo because he often says, "mommy, here [handing me a toy, usually a truck], this for you." and he has once recently asked me "mommy, play [with] me," talking about trucks also. i'm pretty sure this means he wants to play with others and not just alongside. :) pretty bossy, but whatever. :)

also, he's learned the word "empty." for whatever reason, it just seems like a mature word to know. i asked him if there was more fruit in his bib today. he peeked inside and said nonchalantly, "no, it's empty."

categories. my guess is that they teach and practice categories at daycare, but while on the cruise, we talked about things that live in the ocean. shane and i started the list, but mosey took off with it, "and sharks... and whales... and starfish... and dolphins... and dory... and nemo... and octopus..." we were blown away. so, he knows the concept of 'things that live in the ocean.'

when we started talking about how mosey knows the difference between so many types of vehicles, we listed, "truck,  food truck, car, convertible, bus, fire truck, etc..." we ran out of examples and after a brief pause, mosey chimed in... "and camper..." haha! i didn't even know he was listening to our conversation!

lovelove,
me

numbers can be confusing

"what's your name?"
"moses."

"how old are you, moses? (whispered: say, 'i'm two')"
"i'm three!"